{"id":3205,"date":"2010-05-03T22:23:33","date_gmt":"2010-05-03T21:23:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/?p=3205"},"modified":"2010-05-03T22:23:33","modified_gmt":"2010-05-03T21:23:33","slug":"absent-friends-not-close-enough-to-touch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/?p=3205","title":{"rendered":"Absent friends, not close enough to touch"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have a friend. Her name is Ruth.<\/p>\n<p>Ruth has been a gossip buddy for many years &#8211; since before Daughter was born (though Daughter would probably insist that nothing existed before she was born because she is, after all, the Princess of the Known Galaxy).<\/p>\n<p>Ruth has been funny and serious, she has teased me she has supported me. She has held my metaphorical hand and, at times, kicked my metaphorical bum.<\/p>\n<p>Ruth edited and proof-read my first novel, and what a pair of hellish tasks they both must have been.<\/p>\n<p>Ruth has helped shape my writing, in long and short format.<\/p>\n<p>A few weeks ago, over the Easter weekend, Ruth was unexpectedly admitted to hospital and underwent immediate, and very serious, surgery.<\/p>\n<p>Surgery that only someone like Ali Booker, or Ruth, would be able to fully understand.<\/p>\n<p>It was a shock to learn of it, but it must have been a thousand times more shocking for Ruth, to be the subject of an emergency admission, to have had such a terribly interventionist operation when, up until that time, there had been no inkling&#8230; No idea that something was so wrong.<\/p>\n<p>I have never met Ruth.<\/p>\n<p>I feel as if I know her so well, we have shared secrets that only two people who have never met can share.<\/p>\n<p>I kind of love her. Quite a lot.<\/p>\n<p>I have thought of Ruth, and her illness and the trauma she&#8217;s been through, every day.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t comprehend it fully.<\/p>\n<p>But that doesn&#8217;t stop me from thinking.<\/p>\n<p>And wishing.<\/p>\n<p>And hoping.<\/p>\n<p>I know she has her family and they will help and support and, more importantly, will be there for her.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t be there for her.<\/p>\n<p>But that doesn&#8217;t stop me thinking.<\/p>\n<p>And wishing.<\/p>\n<p>And hoping.<\/p>\n<p>Please get well Ruth.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have a friend. Her name is Ruth. Ruth has been a gossip buddy for many years &#8211; since before Daughter was born (though Daughter<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3205","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-stuff","two-columns"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3205","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3205"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3205\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3205"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3205"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3205"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}