{"id":4539,"date":"2011-02-01T17:19:04","date_gmt":"2011-02-01T17:19:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/?p=4539"},"modified":"2011-02-01T17:19:04","modified_gmt":"2011-02-01T17:19:04","slug":"a-different-kind-of-breaking-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/?p=4539","title":{"rendered":"A different kind of breaking up"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Coming to the realisation that any long-standing relationship has withered to the point it has become harmful to one&#8217;s health is, frankly, painful.<\/p>\n<p>Motivating oneself to the point where one actually *does something* to make the necessary break-up happen is, obviously, difficult beyond measure.<\/p>\n<p>But this is where we&#8217;re at.<\/p>\n<p>Things can not carry on any longer.<\/p>\n<p>The sheer pain that this relationship has put us through over the last year &#8211; the last ten months, if I&#8217;m being honest &#8211; has induced feelings of anger, rage and frustration to the point where all I&#8217;ve wanted to do is lash out and hurt something.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t, obv. But the motivation was there.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, it&#8217;s now done.<\/p>\n<p>We have had the phone call and, like a pair of grown-ups, we have agreed the inevitable.<\/p>\n<p>From 10th February 2011 we shall no longer be with BT.<\/p>\n<p>This is the first time that I have paired up with any telecoms company other than BT.<\/p>\n<p>Apart from the times I&#8217;ve lived abroad, obv.<\/p>\n<p>The conversation with BT was honest, and focussed.<\/p>\n<p>They thanked me for the extended patience we have shown them, but the truth is, they&#8217;re still no nearer to identifying the real cause of the ongoing problem.<\/p>\n<p>That statement was it, really; that was the final nail in the coffin.<\/p>\n<p>I feel sad &#8211; I really do.<\/p>\n<p>Virgin Media are going to have to work extremely hard to meet my expectations.<\/p>\n<p>But the truth is, over the last ten months, BT haven&#8217;t really met my standards either.<\/p>\n<p>*sniff*<\/p>\n<p>At least we shouldn&#8217;t have to see any more speed reports like this:<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4542\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4542\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/wp-content\/Speed7.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4542\" title=\"Speed7\" src=\"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/wp-content\/Speed7-300x183.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"183\" srcset=\"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Speed7-300x183.jpg 300w, https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Speed7.jpg 409w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4542\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">click for a bigger picture<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Coming to the realisation that any long-standing relationship has withered to the point it has become harmful to one&#8217;s health is, frankly, painful. Motivating oneself<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4539","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-stuff","two-columns"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4539","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4539"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4539\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4539"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4539"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4539"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}