{"id":515,"date":"2008-04-28T19:40:18","date_gmt":"2008-04-28T19:40:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/?p=515"},"modified":"2008-04-28T19:45:45","modified_gmt":"2008-04-28T19:45:45","slug":"i-am-not-a-good-husband","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/?p=515","title":{"rendered":"I am not a good husband"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I find myself being negative.<\/p>\n<p>Words and phrases like; please don&#8217;t; and, put it away; and, you don&#8217;t need to do that&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Unduly negative and, to my ears, far too frequently.<\/p>\n<p>This negativity drops an unwanted, unwelcome shado0w across the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>And it isn&#8217;t a negative relationship &#8211; these words leave a bad taste in my mouth every time I use them.<\/p>\n<p>So no matter what my intentions, no matter what the reasoning behind the thoughts behind the words as of tonight, this evening, I am stopping.<\/p>\n<p>There, I&#8217;ve said it.<\/p>\n<p>I. Am. Stopping.<\/p>\n<p>And damn the consequences.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>B<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I find myself being negative. Words and phrases like; please don&#8217;t; and, put it away; and, you don&#8217;t need to do that&#8230; Unduly negative and,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-515","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-stuff","two-columns"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/515","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=515"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/515\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=515"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=515"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brennigjones.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=515"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}